Everyone' s life is stressed one way or another. The Buddha had taught
self-training: regain strength and deal with all assaults whatever they
are. There in the four noble truths are the truth of suffering and truth
of the origin of suffering. The Buddha' s response to that was most
forthright. Distress, though forever looming, is eliminable. Take courage,
confront issues, and find resolutions. As well, in practice, the Buddha
put forth the truth of the path to cessation of suffering. Pursue own
path, strengthen own will, and keep working. Such day-to-day practice
is fine-tuning own perception about life and building resistance against
life' s meddling and assault.
Even anger but comes and goes amidst another moment of arising and
extinction. Anger heads nowhere. There is room in life for hurt; there is
also room in life for bliss. Ours has been a decent life, after all, with
technology, affluence, and freedom. Forget pains already gone, then,
head toward the virtuous, be kind to ourselves, abide by the doctrine,
make proper use of facilities available, service the community, build
affinity, and earn merit and virtue with joy. Own life force thus
empowered, defilement wanes. A fulfilled life brimming with light
and hope has no room for wastage.