佛學講座 - 佛學問答(English) - With growing unease between myself and daughter-in-law, what to do?
With growing unease between myself and daughter-in-law, what to do?

 

The bottom line is togetherness: you' re living together.

Learn to be considerate, to accommodate your daughter-in-law' s change

of attitude. She has become quiet around the house, maybe, out of

stress from work or fatigue.

Learn to be objective, to ask yourself if you are overtaxing her strength

and if you are treating her like your own.

Learn to be kinder, gentler with her. Tell the Buddhist inside you to do

so. You be the one to effect changes first.